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Pages | 160 |
US ISBN | 978-1-64286-126-6 |
UK ISBN | 978-1-912987-52-8 |
Ebook ISBN | 978-1-64286-129-7 |
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US publication date | June 6, 2023 |
UK publication date | June 8, 2023 |
Price | $17.99, £13.99 |
My Mother Says
$17.99
When good advice is all you need
The narrator’s long-term girlfriend has just broken things off, forcing her to move back in with her father, a Pink Floyd–loving priest. While she desperately tries to convince her girlfriend to reconsider, the rest of the world bombards her with advice: from her childhood friend Mulle to her kindly therapist to her overbearing mother and card-playing father. Bumbling through the fog of disillusionment, the narrator gives herself permission to grieve, philosophize, and be generally outrageous until at last she sees a light at the end of the tunnel. My Mother Says is a compendium of conversations between people who talk past one another in a universe of misplaced good intentions. In this whirlwind of memories, confessions, temper tantrums, and declarations of love, Pilgaard’s sheer affection for her characters turns the pain of a broken heart into a heartwarming comedy of errors.
Author
Stine Pilgaard
Stine Pilgaard is a graduate of the Danish Writers’ Academy and the University of Copenhagen. Her first novel … Read more
Book Club Questions
- What do you think Pilgaard hopes to say about love in this work?
- Many of the characters give our narrator advice. Did you have a favourite? Or perhaps your favourite sections were the seahorse monologues?
- How do you think the form of the novel helps to express the ideas therein?
- Pilgaard treads a fine line between humor and sadness. Where do you think she lands; do you fund this book funnier than it is sad, or vice versa?
- Many of the larger-than-life characters, especially the narrator, tend to reveal their emotions and thoughts. Would the world be a better place with less self-censorship? With none at all?
- What is it that gets her through the breakup? Is it time, perspective, the love of her family?
- Have you read any other fiction from Denmark? Do you think this has a particular Danish style to it?
- Pilgaard (and Hunter Simpson) uses a lot of rich language, for example there are many visceral and bodily references, to the brain, the rib cage, the heart, etc. Are there any other metaphors or motifs you can point to that Pilgaard uses to express her themes, such as those of disillusionment, alienation, and being overwhelmed by her emotions?
- What’s the meaning of the seahorse?
- How would you describe the doctor’s way of thinking? How is it represented as limited?
- Are there are other themes that seem to concern Pilgaard, or the narrator, in this work?
- If you’ve read The Land of Short Sentences, did you detect any common threads? If you haven’t, would you like to read it?
Press Quotes
Praise for Stine Pilgaard
“Pilgaard has the formidable ability to give a new twist to language and fixed expressions.”
Litteratursiden
“Pilgaard has a great sense for the ironic twist hiding in any situation.”
Dagbladet Information
Praise for My Mother Says
“With undying optimism and a sting of melancholy, Stine Pilgaard portrays the frailty of conversation in this hilarious queer break-up story. Nobody writes dialogue like Pilgaard. Her musicality gets you first, then you stay for the warmth and the acceptance of loneliness as a condition of life. Few books make me laugh out loud as much as this one. This wise writer is one of Denmark’s most beloved authors.”
OLGA RAVN, author of The Employees
“Quirky and charming … A memorable work.”
The Gay & Lesbian Review
“Reeling from a breakup, a young Danish woman recovers her sense of self through conversations with parents, friends, and strangers. A sweet and quirky debut about heartbreak, memory, and the endless potential of language.”
Kirkus Reviews
“Stine Pilgaard’s debut whirls with elegance and energy.”
Politiken
“A novel about getting over a broken heart without drowning in self-pity, but also a novel about language and communication, dialogue versus monologue, and community versus loneliness.”
Stavanger Aftenblad
“A pearl of linguistic abundance. … Stine Pilgaard’s debut novel is an original, humorous, and slightly absurd universe of misunderstandings. The narrator’s affection for the characters turns the humor into loving comedy.”
Litteratursiden
“An incredibly promising and slyly hilarious debut novel. … Pilgaard writes bravely, without hesitation, and with a sarcasm and subtle humor that shines through the book’s many conversations, and invites the reader into an affectionate and joyful relationship with the characters.”
Fyens Stifstidende
“Stine Pilgaard has written this winter’s must-read. … It’s an impressive debut, I’m going to read it again right away.”
Weekendavisen
“With its references to the psalms of the baroque, My Mother Says is both highly literary and deeply communicative. This is a novel that reaches out to its reader, and it does so by being uncommonly entertaining.”
Information
“Stine Pilgaard is a debut author you should get to know. My Mother Says is breezy and full of humor. I caught myself laughing out loud several times, even though the novel is about the pain of a broken heart.”
Femina
“An exuberant debut novel.”
Extra Bladet
Praise for The Land of Short Sentences
“Small communities love their inside jokes, which become all the more (and paradoxically) hilarious if an outsider takes them seriously. Pilgaard’s smart, layered parody will make you laugh without knowing exactly why, and then will keep you laughing at your self-consciousness.”
VERONICA RAIMO, author of The Girl at the Door
“A charming and funny novel. … The buzz of people coming and going through the pages, and the warmth and wit of the narrator’s voice, make it a pleasure to be in her company.”
The Guardian
“Stine Pilgaard’s novel is a charming chamber work, focusing on a handful of characters in a relatively isolated location, from the perspective of a protagonist struggling to find her own place in society. Her advice columns make for a fascinating contrast with the stories of her life, and a few unlikely narrative payoffs make these seemingly distanced aspects more connected than you’d expect.”
Words Without Borders
“A different and refreshing novel. It’s wise, funny and sad by turns and has a powerful sense of place.”
Daily Mail
“A gentle observational comedy. … Pilgaard draws out a great deal of warmth and humour from the narrator’s attempts to connect with the locals.”
The Herald
“Hunter Simpson’s translation is playful, funny, and colorful without being showy, rendering the world of a Folk High School in West Jutland with warmth and precision and the voice of the novel’s witty fish-out-of-water narrator with panache.”
Jury, Leif and Inger Sjöberg Prize for Translation, 2021
“A joyful reflection on living and dealing with anxiety.”
The Herald
“A captivating novel. … Stine Pilgaard has pulled off the tour de force of writing a book that is both hilarious and metaphysical.”
Le Monde
“More than the story itself, I enjoyed reading about the daily life of a different culture. Hunter Simpson, the translator, did a fantastic job at getting the spirit and atmosphere across—no easy task.”
Man of la Book
“A master of irony lays down her weapons. A deliciously crumbly novel oozing with awkward love.”
Weekendavisen
“A sheer delight: Stine Pilgaard has penned a perfect comedy about normalcy.”
Dagbladet Information
“The Land of Short Sentences comfortably won the Golden Laurels award, receiving over half the votes of Denmark’s bookstores. … The book of the year. An absolutely fabulous novel about adjusting to midlife in the back of beyond.”
Jyllands-Posten
“Stine Pilgaard has a pronounced talent for parody. She can write in such a way as to make you laugh out loud, bringing our embarrassments out into the open, capturing the absurdities of everyday life. Her dialogues are natural and precise, her language clear and succinct, and her references plain and recognizable. But beneath the lightness of her prose hides something beyond comedy and rhetoric.”
Berlingske
“Another Pilgaard pearl. Too funny for words and at the same time so keenly intelligent in its depictions. You love her characters to bits and understand their faltering steps on the road to community so well. A book you’ll cherish reading—again and again and …”
SØNDAG
“Stine Pilgaard’s crisp prose and supreme timing can be spotted fifty books away. It’s an exquisite pearl of a book, wonderfully funny, playful, and subtle in its crafting. But don’t be mistaken: beneath the humor there’s a worldly-wise voice with a finely honed ability to put into words all that’s profound and beautiful and good about life. This is one of the best works of Danish literature I’ve read in ages.”
Litteratursiden
“The Land of Short Sentences is a tragicomic genre hybrid including advice columns, højskole songs, and a thoroughly maladapted, infinitely charming narrator. The book’s disasters are small, and it is a situational comedy that gives us a break from world events. But it is not cozily escapist or trivial; it is a consolation, a reminder of something common, comical, and troublesome that persists while dramatic global events take place: the fact that people need people, no matter how awkward it can be. Dear Stine Pilgaard. I would like to say congratulations on the award, but also: thank you for the book. Because it made it a little easier to live, without lying about it being easy. Because it lingered with irresistible joy on all the little inconveniences that make up the social landscape. Because it made it much easier to be a weirdo who ventures across the boundaries of others with the best of intentions.”
LINEA MAJA ERNST, Weekendavisen
“Pilgaard has written an entertaining parody of the rural idyll. With dry Danish humor she describes the difficult integration of a woman in West Jutland. The problems that men and women of all ages spew into the letter section are all too recognizable. Divorces, alcoholism, jealousy and work addiction, everything is discussed.”
De Volkskrant
“What an absolutely wonderful book.”
Het Parool
“Pilgaard is one of the most talented writers in Denmark. In the mildly satirical The Land of Short Sentences, she provides both entertainment and depth. The book is a sharp diagnosis of Scandinavian modern-family resentment and of outrageous idealism and social alienation.”
De Morgen
“Sharp, observant, entertaining, and empathetic. The novel’s greatness is that it does not rely on tricks or shortcuts, but only warmhearted storytelling and an incredible ability to capture a scene.”
Modernista, Swedish publisher
“Stine Pilgaard writes tenderly and wittily about the agonies of learning to drive and being a parent, of living on an island and among other people, in an imperfect present and a self-created future. It’s the perfect read for our time.”
Kanon Verlag, German publisher
“The Land of Short Sentences is funny, tender, surprising. It is a novel that makes you laugh out loud and then touches you deeply in the next moment. There are beautiful observations about how people live their lives, observations about parenthood, community, relationships. Just like its main character, the Letterbox (!), the novel is quirky, funny, a bit crazy, but so very loveable!”
WSOY, Finnish publisher
Why You Should Read This Book
“My Mother Says is not so much about falling out of love, but rather about the great tangle of emotions that comes with a breakup. Inside the rupture of a breakup are thousands of other ruptures, all activating each other, as if every parting links to every other parting, like a domino effect. As I see it, humans have two different ways of approaching each other: through language and through body. I have great faith in language, but I also sometimes doubt its efficacy. I believe one remembers with the body, that the body’s experiences go a long way to making us who we are. As if the body is a memory palace where we store our memories and that they move and come alive when we experience something that stirs them.”
STINE PILGAARD, the author
“Part temper tantrum and part surrealist meditation on the passage of time, My Mother Says is an exercise in tonal dissonance: it is the sound of our young heroine’s bratty nonchalance pounding into the shores of adulthood, with its attendant mundanity and loss. But there is poetry in that loss, and the central challenge of translating the novel was to be faithful to our heroine’s multiplicity, as she stamps her feet in frustration while at the same time paying heartfelt tribute to all people who shaped her life thus far.”
HUNTER SIMPSON, the translator
“Stine Pilgaard is a literary sensation in Denmark, and it is my pleasure to introduce her fantastic novels to English-language readers—reading Pilgaard’s work is such a joyful experience! The protagonist in My Mother Says is struggling with things we all have been through—the break-up of her relationship, followed by all sorts of well-meant advice from her mother and others who know what’s best for her. Pilgaard’s sense of humor and sharp eye for people’s tendency to talk past one another make reading her work a feast of recognition.”
JUDITH UYTERLINDE, the publisher